A Magic Bond
Nikki
Grant Ferris
Grey/Bruce Outdoors
Children raised away from
the big cities have a lot of advantages over their down-town peers. They
have more access to outdoor recreation and in many cases their parents
find it practical to get these kids a dog as a companion. Bonded early,
the relationship is beneficial for both dog and child and the joys they
experience together are wonderful to see.
If you were one of these
lucky kids, nothing more has to be said. No one can tell you that dogs
can’t communicate as their body-language and facial expressions often work
even better than words do between humans. Dogs don’t lie like people do,
they send their messages clearly and simply. Many breeds like collies,
Newfoundland, Labrador and golden retrievers seem to consider themselves
humans… or at least a full member of the family with rights and responsibilities
to match.
Not that raising a dog is
always an easy task; they take a lot of care and attention as well as costing
quite a bit to maintain their health. The payback is in more than just
companionship though as the rapport between a child and a family pet is
beneficial to the emotional development of almost any child. There is a
security benefit also because dogs warn of intruders, fires, traffic hazards
and the approach of other animals.
About twelve years ago a
middle-of-the-night sneak thief entered three of five houses in my neighbourhood
but chose to avoid the two homes with large dogs. My friendly retriever
growled at the front door a few times that night and that was all it took
to maintain our security.
Unfortunately, as is our
human tendency, some people get carried away with the power they get from
owning a dog willing to fight for them and obtain specially bred animals
that threaten anyone at any time. Recent attacks in the news shouldn’t
reflect badly on the human-dog relationship so beneficial to everyone,
they are instead indicative of poor human judgment, even a lack of common
sense.
Over-looking these unhealthy
examples, we can still believe that mostly the magic bond between kids
and dogs is good. It teaches kids to love, it brings happiness, contentment
and leaves them with sweet memories of golden days with a real best friend.
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