Bobalong's Dilemma
Derrel and Bobalong at
the 2001 Owen Sound Salmon Spectacular fishing derby.
Grant Ferris
Grey/Bruce Outdoors
When Robert Haven was 10, he
picked up a nasty bug from drinking raw milk. It took away the sight from
his right eye and was expected to leave him blind by age 12. Experimental
drugs saved his vision but he was unable to drive until age 38 when a special
contact lens finally allowed him to pass a driver's license test. Growing
up, his sisters were allowed to use the family car if they agreed to take
Bob along.
A year ago Bobalong and his
wife were looking forward to retiring in Owen Sound. They bought a home
on the west side, close enough to the harbour so Bob could walk down to
the dock and cast lures. He contacted me and requested some assistance
on selecting a custom-built, one piece fishing rod, a special item that
his fellow workers wanted to buy him for a retirement gift. We sat together
at the 2000 Owen Sound Salmon Spectacular and he spoke of his plans to
fish and write about fishing in the years to come. At Bob’s request, because
he wanted the very best custom fishing rod for harbour-wall casting, I
consulted with my friend Derrel who lives in Clackamas, Oregon, and with
Derrel’s advice, a rod blank choice was made. Drew Watson was approached
to assemble the rod and we all agreed it would be fun to photograph Bob’s
first cast from the Owen Sound dock.
As the day approached when
the Havens could move up and leave city stress behind them, they visited
as often as they could manage. Finally the time approached; there were
just 21 days to go…
A year after we spoke at the
derby headquarters, I met Bob again. It was at this year’s Salmon Spectacular,
August just past. My Oregon friend Derrel was with me this time, he had
flown from Clackamas to stay at my Port Elgin home for the ten day derby
event and was looking forward to meeting all of the people he had heard
about over the years.
But things were much different
for Bob.
Bobalong, who wanted nothing
more than to spend the rest of his life peacefully in the Scenic City,
had pulled out in front of an oncoming transport truck just before he retired.
Seconds later his plans and hopes were crumpled in the wreckage of his
car.
This year, when we met at the
derby, Bob was being pushed in a wheel chair by his wife and his voice
was so weak I could barely hear him. He had suffered an injury to the C-5-6
area of his spinal cord, leaving him with little or no feelings from his
breast down to his feet.
Unfortunately, the home the
Haven’s bought for their retirement is not suitable for someone in a wheelchair
and changes must be made. Local contractor Tom Clancy will be modifying
it to allow wheelchair access but Clancy cannot start until at least the
end of October. Bob is due to be released from the hospital soon and needs
somewhere to live. He asked me to tell Sun-Times readers of his plight.
If anyone has a residence for rent with wheelchair access in or near Owen
Sound, please contact Bob’s in-laws at 519-376-6610
Bob is undergoing therapy although
so far has insufficient strength in his hands to hold his new fishing rod.
It’s waiting for him at Watson’s with his name inscribed on it and hopefully
the day will soon come when Bobalong will be able to take that first cast
off the Owen Sound dock. I hope Drew Watson will be there to see that happen
and I hope I will be able to take a picture to send to Derrel in Oregon.
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